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    When Life Becomes a Meme – You May Be a Racist

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    June 29, 2018
    When Life Becomes a Meme – You May Be a Racist

    I’d like to talk today about privilege. Specifically, how utterly and completely ridiculous it is when you don’t realize you have it, you behave irrationally, and the media retaliates by turning you into a living meme. In the past few months there have been a rash of video-based stories all…

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    Melania, Did You Forget that You’re First Lady?

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    June 22, 2018
    Melania, Did You Forget that You’re First Lady?

    I’ve never been someone who believed that a woman had to follow extremely strict rules on how to dress. There are far too many considerations to bind a woman – or a man, for that matter – to conventions often established so long ago, they’re no longer valid. Your sartorial…

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    Nicki Minaj and the Power of an Image to Create Controversy

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    June 15, 2018
    Nicki Minaj and the Power of an Image to Create Controversy

    Nicki Minaj is one of those celebrities that makes headlines as a matter of course. She doesn’t have to do much. Thanks to her enhanced curves, racy rap lyrics and unsmiling, unapologetically sexual visage, just standing there in one of her over-the-top costumes is usually enough. Case in point, her…

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  • For the culture

    Bill Clinton: The President’s Apology Is Still Missing

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    June 8, 2018

    I was at the Javits Center working with a client last week when I noticed we were sharing the convention hall with the BookExpo. There was a huge banner advertising Bill Clinton’s new book with James Patterson. I thought, ‘Huh. That’s an interesting pairing. Marketable and attention grabbing, for sure.’…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    Being Defensive In an Argument Makes You Look Weak

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    May 25, 2018
    Being Defensive In an Argument Makes You Look Weak

    So, this week the NFL officially banned taking a knee on the field. Players who do will be fined. I thought, great. Here’s another way for you to pay for being black, or to pay for caring about issues that affect black people. Not that the players are entirely without…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    When Communicating Tough or Divisive Topics, Employ a Little Finesse

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    May 18, 2018
    When Communicating Tough or Divisive Topics, Employ a Little Finesse

    For weeks I’ve been trying to figure out a theme with which to resurrect my YouTube channel. I’ve literally been gone since November – the last time I posted a video – and it’s ridiculous. I’m in the content creation business, and video is huge. I’m seriously missing the boat.…

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    How Does Your Company Handle Reports of Employee Harassment?

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    May 11, 2018
    How Does Your Company Handle Reports of Employee Harassment?

    I create a lot of content in my work. That content is used for different media, platforms and purposes, whether they’re written, spoken or visual. However, no matter what form that content ultimately takes, it’s successful reception usually comes down to two things: how I deliver a message and who…

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  • For the culture

    Kanye, Being Deliberately Shocking Is Boring

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    May 4, 2018
    Kanye, Being Deliberately Shocking Is Boring

    For anyone in this day and age of viral messaging and live forever on the Internet culture to try and be deliberately shocking is just, kind of, boring. Being deliberately conscious of the power in your words and messages, on the other hand? That’s something. That’s powerful. That gets eyes,…

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  • In the media, Life plus style, Ponder this

    Boycott Waffle House. Let Chikesia Know She Matters

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    April 27, 2018
    Boycott Waffle House. Let Chikesia Know She Matters

    My heart absolutely breaks for Chikesia Clemons, the 25-year-old woman who was brutally assaulted/arrested last weekend at a Waffle House in Saraland, Alabama. It’s really hard for me to write my blog this week. I’ve wavered, I’ve teared up, I even debated not writing anything because I knew this had…

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