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    This Is the World that We Live In

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    September 25, 2020
    This Is the World that We Live In

    My sister and her friend got me a bike for my birthday, and I’ve been riding it almost every day. It feels wonderful to move fast, propelling myself forward, a cooling wind in my hair — even though I’ve probably eaten quite a few bugs. But I’ve seen a man…

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    The Idea That People Would Choose Not to Vote… It’s Mind Blowing

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    September 18, 2020
    The Idea That People Would Choose Not to Vote… It’s Mind Blowing

    I tweeted out an article today discussing the discrepancies between white and black voters mail in ballots being rejected in North Carolina. Mind you, I wasn’t in the least surprised to hear that this is going on. But it got me thinking. The election is right around the corner. Things are…

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    The Oscars Has Quotas Now

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    September 11, 2020
    The Oscars Has Quotas Now

    I love movies. Adore them. One of the saddest things for me about COVID — among the unnecessary luxuries that have become its casualties — is the fact that I can no longer visit the theater comfortably. I mean, I could. But I’m not going to. My love for cinema…

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    There Is Always a Reason to Celebrate Life

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    September 4, 2020
    There Is Always a Reason to Celebrate Life

    The world found out that Chadwick Boseman died last Friday evening. I was in a funk that day. A real, deep, funky funk. I didn’t even blog last week, which is very unusual for me. But I literally had nothing good to say. I was without wit, humor, disgust, irritation.…

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    Megan thee Stallion: a Cautionary Tale for Young Black Women

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    August 21, 2020
    Megan thee Stallion: a Cautionary Tale for Young Black Women

    So, Megan thee Stallion revealed this week that yes, it was Tory Lanez who shot her last month, and the internet has gone absolutely wild. I’ve been watching this story for weeks now, and I hate to say it, but I predicted this would happen. I knew she was going…

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    Kamala Harris for VP, and the Army of Men and Women Who’ve Put a No-Nonsense Line of Support in the Sand

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    August 14, 2020
    Kamala Harris for VP, and the Army of Men and Women Who’ve Put a No-Nonsense Line of Support in the Sand

    In this age of social media, it’s refreshing to say, there are still a lot of good old-fashioned letters being written. Of course, they’re not being delivered via USPS – thank goodness, since they’re having their own issues – but these letters are doing a lot to convey the thoughts,…

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    Some Phrases You’ve Used Your Whole Life May Need to Be Retired

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    August 7, 2020
    Some Phrases You’ve Used Your Whole Life May Need to Be Retired

    Something interesting happened to me earlier this week, a client apologized to me. We’ll just call him Mr. Big Wig — because he is — BW for short. We had our weekly meeting on Monday, discussing upcoming opportunities and plans to expand his brand, etc. After 30 minutes, we ended…

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    This Portland Mom Will Make You Believe that Black Life Matters

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    July 31, 2020
    This Portland Mom Will Make You Believe that Black Life Matters

    I’ve been staying away from social media for some weeks — actually, months — now. Days will go by and I don’t click on Instagram or post on Twitter beyond my business accounts. It’s too disturbing. It’s one thing to know how screwed up the world can be on issues…

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    What Do You Do When Grown People Act Like Kids?

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    July 24, 2020
    What Do You Do When Grown People Act Like Kids?

    I can only believe — mostly because I want to — that right now we’re going through some kind of farcical growing pains in society. Why? Because I see too much name calling, finger pointing, lying, he say she say type behavior going on, and it’s exactly the type of…

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