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    Aunt Jemima Is Dead

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    February 12, 2021
    Aunt Jemima Is Dead

    I must say I don’t feel the least bit gruesome for the subtle satisfaction I feel in acknowledging — dare I say, low key celebrating? — someone’s demise. But I don’t. I suppose it helps that Aunt Jemima isn’t actually a person. She’s a construct. An antiquated, racist construct that has now…

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    Cyborg Is No More — at Least Not Ray Fisher’s Version

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    January 15, 2021
    Cyborg Is No More — at Least Not Ray Fisher’s Version

    So, actor Ray Fisher is in the news. He will officially not be continuing his role as Cyborg in the upcoming movie The Flash, but not because of bad behavior or illness. It appears he’s been fired for being too truthful. The short version is, he called out Justice League director Joss Whedon for racist,…

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    To Avoid Arrest and Death in Cases of Domestic Terrorism, It’s Best to Have Blue Eyes and White Skin

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    January 8, 2021
    To Avoid Arrest and Death in Cases of Domestic Terrorism, It’s Best to Have Blue Eyes and White Skin

    My closest friends know I have a running joke about how in my next life I want to be reincarnated as a white man. I’d like to be 6’3″, fine, with thick, jet black hair, milk pale skin and blue eyes. I mean blue! That spooky, piercing Chris Pine/Paul Newman…

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  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    2021, Cool.

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    January 1, 2021
    2021, Cool.

    I wanted to be terribly hopeful and happy and excited about 2021, but I confess: I’m more like, meh. Honestly, it feels like just another day, which was, for me, par for the course for 2020. One day ran into the next, and before I knew it, my birthday passed.…

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  • Black women at work

    Pinterest Settles Big Discrimination Lawsuit, Ignores Key — Black — Players

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    December 18, 2020
    Pinterest Settles Big Discrimination Lawsuit, Ignores Key — Black — Players

    So, Pinterest settled a huge discrimination lawsuit this week. Francoise Brougher, its former chief operating officer, received $22.5M. It’s big. But what’s interesting is that the women who initially brought the discrimination to light received virtually nothing. “Ifeoma Ozoma and Aerica Shimizu Banks went public in June with allegations of racial and…

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  • Black women at work

    There Are No Winners, Only Losers in the Timnit Gebru-Google Situation

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    December 4, 2020
    There Are No Winners, Only Losers in the Timnit Gebru-Google Situation

    So, Google is in the news this week, and not in a good way. The company fired Timnit Gebru, co-leader of its Ethical Artificial Intelligence team, and her release to the marketplace was not amiable. Gebru announced her departure on Twitter after it happened, and immediately made it clear that…

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    The Media Is In Crisis, and It’s Taking America Down with It

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    November 20, 2020
    The Media Is In Crisis, and It’s Taking America Down with It

    In a word, what’s happening right now in the media, and low key in this country, is a shitshow. It’s like this Fast Company piece from Joe Berkowitz said: “We are heading down a dark path, and laughing all the way about the shoddy paving.” It’s ridiculous, but this is the reality.…

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    Leaders Concede. They Know It’s Not the End, Nor Is It a Sign of Weakness

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    November 13, 2020
    Leaders Concede. They Know It’s Not the End, Nor Is It a Sign of Weakness

    So, that person’s refusal to concede the election has me thinking about leadership. Mine, the leaders I’ve encountered in the past, and those I’ve been privileged to work with recently. Self-reflection is really something. I think it’s a mark of maturity — especially when you can do it calmly, with an eye…

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  • For the culture

    Hidden Messages and Cancel Culture: The Whys, Wherefore’s and Whatnots as We Await Word on the Presidency

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    November 6, 2020
    Hidden Messages and Cancel Culture: The Whys, Wherefore’s and Whatnots as We Await Word on the Presidency

    I was talking to my friend Kate today about my blog topic for the week. Nothing political, we both agreed, and we settled on entertainment. There’s a lot going on — some of it good! Hello, Georgia. We see you, girl — and despite our mutual distaste for some facets…

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