Skip to content

Treatmebetta

  • Collaborations
  • Blog
  • About
  • Contact
  • Ponder this

    What’s the Difference Between White Liberal Rhetoric and True Advocacy?

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    June 12, 2020
    What’s the Difference Between White Liberal Rhetoric and True Advocacy?

    One of my oldest friends has a service job, work truck, hard hat, uniform, the whole bit. He often has to visit people at their home to do prep work before they start major projects that require digging and potentially hitting power, gas, and cable lines. He’s told me stories…

    Continue reading →: What’s the Difference Between White Liberal Rhetoric and True Advocacy?
  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    You Want an Immediate Way to Fight the Battle for Black Lives? Buy Black

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    June 5, 2020
    You Want an Immediate Way to Fight the Battle for Black Lives? Buy Black

    I don’t like protests. I understand them, the rage, emotion, the history and everything else that fuels such demonstrations. They do create awareness and solidarity, and I believe they have some value. But I don’t want Black people to focus their energy there. The country is up in arms right…

    Continue reading →: You Want an Immediate Way to Fight the Battle for Black Lives? Buy Black
  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    Black Lives Do Not Matter – to the Police

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    May 29, 2020
    Black Lives Do Not Matter – to the Police

    I haven’t been able to sleep well the past two nights. I keep having dreams that I’m stuck in a tight space, and I wake up yelling, hands and arms flailing. So, I looked it up. One interpretation suggests this dream “claustrophobia may be a sign that you feel a…

    Continue reading →: Black Lives Do Not Matter – to the Police
  • In the media, Ponder this

    People Are Avoiding the ‘Rona In More Ways Than One

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    May 22, 2020
    People Are Avoiding the ‘Rona In More Ways Than One

    So, my mom turned 80 this week. Huge milestone, and it’s sad we couldn’t have a party or some kind of get together, but the way the ‘rona is set up, one must be cautious lest your celebration lead, quite literally, to your demise. It’s funny though. My old lady…

    Continue reading →: People Are Avoiding the ‘Rona In More Ways Than One
  • For the culture

    Patti LaBelle, Diamonds and Spinach – It’s Not What You Think

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    May 15, 2020
    Patti LaBelle, Diamonds and Spinach – It’s Not What You Think

    Actually, now that I look at that title, I don’t know what you might think about that interesting pairing LOL, but it’s not as weird as it sounds. Jill Scott released a little video on the ‘Gram yesterday, and I want to comment on it because it’s light and heartwarming…

    Continue reading →: Patti LaBelle, Diamonds and Spinach – It’s Not What You Think
  • In the media, Ponder this

    Ahmaud Arbery and the Legacy of Inaction, Injustice and Tragedy Porn for Black People

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    May 8, 2020
    Ahmaud Arbery and the Legacy of Inaction, Injustice and Tragedy Porn for Black People

    So, the past week has been interesting. I say interesting because everything that’s been happening should have already happened on or immediately after February 23, 2020. That’s the day Ahmaud Arbery was murdered while taking a jog in Georgia. But it was only this week that his murderers, father and…

    Continue reading →: Ahmaud Arbery and the Legacy of Inaction, Injustice and Tragedy Porn for Black People
  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    In the Age of the ‘Rona It’s Mask or Die: But If You’re a Black Man, Apparently It’s Complicated

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    May 1, 2020
    In the Age of the ‘Rona It’s Mask or Die: But If You’re a Black Man, Apparently It’s Complicated

    I was out for one of the two walks I’ll take today when I saw an older black man get extremely startled. He was edging his lawn and didn’t see a woman walking behind him in the street until she was quite close. Not too close, mind, but he jumped…

    Continue reading →: In the Age of the ‘Rona It’s Mask or Die: But If You’re a Black Man, Apparently It’s Complicated
  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    Sarcasm, Bleach and Sunlight: I Think I’ll Just Sleep Until Times Get Better

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    April 24, 2020
    Sarcasm, Bleach and Sunlight: I Think I’ll Just Sleep Until Times Get Better

    So, I saw an article on Fast Company today, “5 reasons we need emotionally intelligent leaders in times of crisis.” Are you nodding? Yeah. Me too. Day to day people are struggling. I mean, they’re really struggling. At last count, some 26 million Americans applied for unemployment in the month or so.…

    Continue reading →: Sarcasm, Bleach and Sunlight: I Think I’ll Just Sleep Until Times Get Better
  • For the culture

    What to Do When You’re #blackAF and a Walking, Hilarious Stereotype

    Published by

    Treatmebetta – a weekly blog for Black women

    on

    April 17, 2020
    What to Do When You’re #blackAF and a Walking, Hilarious Stereotype

    Okay, so I started watching #blackAF because who wouldn’t want to watch a Netflix original series about a family of black people struggling with something other than sports injuries, being broke, abuse, being chased by police, drugs, booze, sex or gambling addiction, and/or trying to survive in the face of…

    Continue reading →: What to Do When You’re #blackAF and a Walking, Hilarious Stereotype
Previous Page Next Page

Hello,

Friends!

Welcome to Treatmebetta, a weekly lifestyle blog for Black women across the diaspora.

  • Black women at work
  • For the culture
  • In the media
  • Life plus style
  • Ponder this
  • The pen is mightier

Let’s connect

  • YouTube

    • TikTok
    • Instagram
    • Mail

    Join our community

    Subscribe so you don’t miss a single blog.

    Recent posts

    • Black Women, You’re Not Resting — You’re Numbing. Here’s the Difference

      Black Women, You’re Not Resting — You’re Numbing. Here’s the Difference

    • Why Absorbing Society’s Expectations Is Dangerous for Black Women — Mind, Body, Spirit, and Money

      Why Absorbing Society’s Expectations Is Dangerous for Black Women — Mind, Body, Spirit, and Money

    • 10 Boundaries Black Women Need to Set — And Why We Struggle to Say Them Out Loud

      10 Boundaries Black Women Need to Set — And Why We Struggle to Say Them Out Loud

    • 11 Ways Black Women Can Actively Choose Happiness

      11 Ways Black Women Can Actively Choose Happiness

    • Why Black Women Overshare — And Why It’s Costing Us More Than We Realize

      Why Black Women Overshare — And Why It’s Costing Us More Than We Realize

    • The Exhaustion of Being Likable: Why Black Women Try So Hard to Be Accepted

      The Exhaustion of Being Likable: Why Black Women Try So Hard to Be Accepted

    Treatmebetta

    • Instagram
    • Facebook
    • Mail
    • Collaborations
    • Blog
    • About
    • Contact

    Blog at WordPress.com.

    Loading Comments...
    • Subscribe Subscribed
      Treatmebetta
      Join 418 other subscribers

      Have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.

    • Treatmebetta
      View site in Reader
      Manage subscriptionsSign upLog in
      Report this content
      Collapse this bar

    Notifications