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    Pandemics and Perspective, Now We Have Both

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    March 13, 2020
    Pandemics and Perspective, Now We Have Both

    So, the coronavirus is a thing. Or, should I call it COVID-19? I’m not being flip. I’m certainly not laughing or even smiling as I write this, but I think it’s important not to get too heavy, you know? To maintain a sense of perspective. I did think about writing…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    Don’t Mess with The Honey Pot

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    March 6, 2020
    Don’t Mess with The Honey Pot

    My friend Adri always says when you find yourself in a potentially dodgy situation, and you have doubts about another person, always assume good intent. Meaning, when you wonder, “Hmmm. Is this person trying to play me dirty?” Don’t jump to the negative. Instead, give them the benefit of the…

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    When Black Girl Magic Goes Viral

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    February 28, 2020

    We can all take something great from the following slice of Black Girl Magic. So, instead of trying to reason out the whys and wherefors to some foolishness that transpired in the media this week, I’m going to leave you with something inspiring, beautiful and encouraging – at least it…

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    Ben Affleck, Can You Please Stop Talking about Jennifer Garner?

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    February 21, 2020
    Ben Affleck, Can You Please Stop Talking about Jennifer Garner?

    Believe it or not, I usually go with a less is more approach when it comes to how much to share online. It may seem like I let it all hang out in my blog and in other places, but I usually only speak when I have something to say.…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    Must We Uphold Freedom of Speech for Everyone? Sadly, Yes

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    February 14, 2020
    Must We Uphold Freedom of Speech for Everyone? Sadly, Yes

    Happy Valentine’s Day everybody. I wish I could offer you a moving story about one-sided obsession turned happily ever after. Maybe a little family redemption and faith or something equally loving. But instead of spreading a written song of passion and care, I’m going to talk about yet another sad…

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  • For the culture

    Joaquin Phoenix Is No Joke

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    February 7, 2020
    Joaquin Phoenix Is No Joke

    I’ve never been one of those people who roll my eyes and say things like, “stick to playing make believe,” or, “stay in your lane, honey,” when movie stars and celebs use their platforms to comment on things outside the entertainment industry. We’re all human. Most things concern most people…

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    Kobe Bryant, Felicia Sonmez, and the Case of the Poorly Timed Tweet

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    January 31, 2020
    Kobe Bryant, Felicia Sonmez, and the Case of the Poorly Timed Tweet

    So, it’s been less than a week since Kobe Bryant died in a helicopter crash along with his daughter Gianna and seven other passengers. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that the world is mourning his death. There have been tributes all over the world, and endless news…

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    Jeanine Cummins, Perception Is Everything

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    January 24, 2020
    Jeanine Cummins, Perception Is Everything

    In Korean culture, age is everything. If someone older than you says jump, you jump. If they take something from you, you bow and don’t say a word. Even if they hit you in the head repeatedly, you take it. Thank God I live in the U.S. ‘cuz would seriously…

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  • Black women at work, Ponder this

    Sadly, There Are Predators Everywhere

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    January 17, 2020
    Sadly, There Are Predators Everywhere

    I like to poke fun at my mom when she’s upset about something and says, “I just don’t understand…” I usually laugh and interrupt with, “Yes, you do.” At 79 years of age, as well traveled and hard working as my mom is, there isn’t much she hasn’t seen or…

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