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    Doing the Same Thing You’ve Always Done Can Be Toxic AF for Black Women over 40

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    April 17, 2024
    Doing the Same Thing You’ve Always Done Can Be Toxic AF for Black Women over 40

    Some would say there’s comfort in routine. That the right routines are integral if you want to make progress toward a goal. I agree.  Acquiring the right habits, and building a dynamic routine that contributes to the consistent betterment of your life is smart. But beware of comfort because there’s…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    There’s Customizing a Message for Your Audience, and There’s Perpetuating Bias

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    February 24, 2023
    There’s Customizing a Message for Your Audience, and There’s Perpetuating Bias

    So, Grant Cardone is in the news this week. You may know him as an author and a purveyor of financial and business advice. I’ve never absorbed any of his content. I’m leery of anyone who’s made a fortune telling other people how to make a fortune — especially when they target…

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    The Lesson for Today: Do Not Tell Company Secrets on a Date

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    January 27, 2023
    The Lesson for Today: Do Not Tell Company Secrets on a Date

    When I first learned the story of Jordon Trishton Walker — presumably former Director of Research Development and Strategic Operations at Pfizer — I thought it was fake. One part of me is still clinging hopefully to the idea that it’s all a hoax.

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  • Ponder this

    The Slap Heard ‘Round the Oscars

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    March 28, 2022
    The Slap Heard ‘Round the Oscars

    One thing is certain. There are very few people who can say, I slapped the shit out somebody, and then I won an Oscar.

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  • Ponder this

    Don’t Get Mad at People for Telling Their Truth

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    January 7, 2022
    Don’t Get Mad at People for Telling Their Truth

    Let’s all make one resolution for 2022: We will not get angry when someone tells us their opinion. Agree, disagree, egregious, ridiculous, disgusting, silly, whatever, even social media opinions are valid. You do not have to agree, but let’s give our fellow adults the good old American privilege to be…

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  • In the media, Ponder this

    Leave Sha’Carri Alone. She’s Young, and She’s a Winner

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    June 25, 2021
    Leave Sha’Carri Alone. She’s Young, and She’s a Winner

    One of the fastest women in the world is a 21-year-old Black woman from Dallas with a penchant for brightly colored weaves, long nails and window washer eye lashes. Her name is Sha’Carri Richardson, and her appearance is all anyone can talk about. Sure, we acknowledge that she’s on her…

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  • The pen is mightier

    Why I Can No Longer Bear to Write about Race

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    May 21, 2021
    Why I Can No Longer Bear to Write about Race

    Those who follow my blog have undoubtedly noticed that I no longer follow my regular Friday posting schedule. A schedule I’ve kept to faithfully, barring a few holidays here and there, for many, many years. I regret that. I still feel a pang every Friday that I don’t post because…

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  • Black women at work

    Why Are We Surrounded by so Many Liars?

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    April 2, 2021
    Why Are We Surrounded by so Many Liars?

    I spoke to a friend recently who’s in the job market. She’s in a good spot in that she’s already employed, she’s just looking for a better opportunity. But she was grumbling about one particular person she works with who has single handedly spurred her to go hard at her…

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  • Life plus style, Ponder this

    White People, Don’t Be So Sensitive When We Point Out Racism

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    March 19, 2021
    White People, Don’t Be So Sensitive When We Point Out Racism

    A woman I work with is moving from Utah. She of white, black and Native American ancestry, her Black husband, their two young children, even the nanny — they can’t take it anymore. It’s not a diverse place — understatement of the year, apparently — and too many of its populace…

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