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Continue reading →: Black Women, You’re Grown. You Don’t Need Your MommySo, Mother’s Day just passed. Day of I was scrolling social media and saw three Black women crying. I heard the word mother so I stopped and let the video play. I’ll try to find the post later and link it, but I recognized one of the women. A pundit…
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Continue reading →: Black Women Over 40, Tell that Lying Ass Family Member to Beat ItYou’ve heard the phrase, it be your own people? Yeah. Family members be on one. For real. They be some of the worst people to those they supposedly love. They will lie to you to get your money, lie to get free advice that they won’t take because it’s too much…
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Continue reading →: Pet to Threat Phenomena Is Real — and so Is Your Need to Be Selfish at WorkMoving from pet to threat means that boss who used to think you’re charming now sees you may be a threat to him or her.
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Continue reading →: The Pet to Threat Phenomena Is Real — and so Is Your Need to Be SelfishYou’ll know something’s not right almost immediately. It feels off. The way you’re looked at, or spoken to, or there’s a big change in behavior for no reason that you can identify. All you know is, you were cool with the boss. Now you’re getting attitude. As a Black woman,…
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Continue reading →: Black Women Over 40, I Wish You Would Work for FreeIt is absolutely wild to me that in this day and age, spring 2024, given the state of the world, there are still people out there who think that you should work for free. It’s baffling. Like, head scratching, are these fools crazy, what in the actual fuck is happening,…
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Continue reading →: Doing the Same Thing You’ve Always Done Can Be Toxic AF for Black Women over 40Some would say there’s comfort in routine. That the right routines are integral if you want to make progress toward a goal. I agree. Acquiring the right habits, and building a dynamic routine that contributes to the consistent betterment of your life is smart. But beware of comfort because there’s…
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Continue reading →: There’s Customizing a Message for Your Audience, and There’s Perpetuating BiasSo, Grant Cardone is in the news this week. You may know him as an author and a purveyor of financial and business advice. I’ve never absorbed any of his content. I’m leery of anyone who’s made a fortune telling other people how to make a fortune — especially when they target…
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Continue reading →: The Lesson for Today: Do Not Tell Company Secrets on a DateWhen I first learned the story of Jordon Trishton Walker — presumably former Director of Research Development and Strategic Operations at Pfizer — I thought it was fake. One part of me is still clinging hopefully to the idea that it’s all a hoax.
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Continue reading →: The Slap Heard ‘Round the OscarsOne thing is certain. There are very few people who can say, I slapped the shit out somebody, and then I won an Oscar.






